If the person is in front of us, our conditioned minds play greater roles in making friendship with him/her.

If the person is superior in our department, we never feel free to joke with that person. Mind automatically gives instructions to keep a distance from the official. The same mind gives freedom to joke and laugh with other colleagues of the same cadre.

If the opposite person is very elder to us, our minds automatically restrict our thinking to consider him as uncle and limit our conversations to very limited sphere.

If the opposite person is of our age and unknown or just introduced by some one, mind passes order to be cautious. We experience lot of hesitation because of lots of doubts on the character of the other person.

If everything is OK, then also mind restricts us to do friendship with the other person of opposite gender and of our age. Mind gives imaginary hints on destruction of marital life because of this friendship and starts giving boundary lines on how to laugh and how to share jokes. We never are in freedom in talking to that friend. That friend may also be in the same state. So such friendships have got some limits in sharing personal feelings and opinions.

Now coming to Internet friendships…we don’t have to worry about what others feel, no worries on marital status. In these friendships, the person’s height and weight, color and creed, age and status do not play the vital role. 

Here, minds speak with minds…as pure as just born babies. 

Many times in real lives, we hesitate to share some things with parents or with life partner or even with friends. But we never hesitate to share such feelings, pains and problems with the virtual friend. In internet friendship, only initial stage hesitation exists. But, if this friendship clicks, that’s it…it becomes the strongest friendship in ones life. Still no one knows what factors play important role in click of this friendship.

   Important thing is Expectation never exists in Internet friendship. 
      When Expectation disappears, love blossoms like a divine act.
      And that Love is the essential medicine to many lonely souls. 

                                                Sneha